Hello,

I don't know where else to start looking so I figured I'd try here. My husband and I are having extreme marital issues. I was living over in Korea for a while but we were having a hard time trying to fix our issues so I came home thinking that he would possibly be able to come home in Febuary of 2009. We just found out that his request to cancel his stabilization was denied and now I'm frantic about what this will do to our marriage. I'm really scared this extra time could cause our marriage to end. I would love more than anything to go back and see what we can do but he now claims that he is working extremely long days at the AHC/Clinic and that it wouldn't help us because he'd never be home. We have an 8 month old daughter and I really want this marriage to work out. I have no idea who to contact or talk to. I can barely get ahold of my husband as it is with his work schedule. Does anyone have any idea of what I can do to start getting some answers or anything? ANY HELP WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!!

One option: if you live near a military base, I would recommend contacting a chaplain there. He/she won't necessarily be able to solve any of your problems, but chaplains are trained to deal with these sorts of problems - especially as they pertain to military members and their families - and they can be a great source of help.

*I agree with Willy. If you are not religious, you may want to rethink that, and find a Priest or Preacher to assist.
You will most likely not be able to work a marriage without outside help. I hope you are with family now, and wish you the best.