When Girls Want Sex: Interesting article!

mike · #1 02-25-2006, 06:18 PM

Shsong21, you better study this and learn!

From the Chosun Ilbo:

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Women are not that different from men. They feel desire for sex just as much, but they express it in different ways. The Chosun Ilbo asked modern women what turns them on and how to spot the signs.

The famous line in the film 'One Fine Spring Day' is, "Want some ramen before you go? Why don't you stay tonight?" It comes as the heroine, played by Lee Young-ae, seduces Yoo Ji-tae when he drives her home after work. Some people may think it rare for women to ask a man first. But the days of the modest, obedient woman who waits for the man to make the first move are long gone. Women no longer hesitate to follow their natural instincts. Holding back is bad for mental hygiene, they say.

Where men have their 30-second principle -- that's how often they think about sex -- women also frequently feel the urge. In sexual medicine, there is a principle of equal sexual desire, the theory that there is no difference in sexual desire between men and women. The difference being, perhaps, that men can have sex whether or not their partner is ready while women just can't when they are not in the mood. All men need to do, then, is accept their spouse's desires just as they are -- and fulfill them.

When women feel like having sex differs from person to person. Biologically, experts agree that women tend to feel the strongest desire just before or after their periods and around the time they are ovulating. Indeed, some women want sex more during their periods because of the onslaught of hormones. At the same time, women are more sensitive to psychological or emotional conditions than mere biological drives. Lee Myeong-hee (35), a publicist and housewife, says she would like her husband to be more understanding when they have sex. She feels like making love to her husband when she senses how much he loves her, she confesses, such as when his voice sounds particularly warm over the phone or when he hugs her after a long day at work.

While men are capable of getting worked up watching pornography or explicit sex scenes, that does not necessarily work for women. Newlywed Kang Won-ju (29) confesses that she felt most like having sex when she and her now-husband were watching a melodrama or a film about puppy love while on a date. In other words, romance and the sight of beautiful couples in love is more of a turn-on than the graphic nitty-gritty of a sex scene.

But one thing is clear: today's women are more honest and demanding of their husbands. They no longer have any qualms about expressing what they want for fear of seeming depraved or looking like a nymphomaniac. One woman admits she sometimes quarrels with her husband when he doesn't make love to her often enough -- a complaint once thought to be the exclusive domain of dissatisfied men.

I like this part:

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One woman admits she sometimes quarrels with her husband when he doesn't make love to her often enough -- a complaint once thought to be the exclusive domain of dissatisfied men.

Where are these women at? They don't exist!

eddiev9 · #2 02-25-2006, 10:07 PM

This article makes no sense to me... "Tell me something I don't know" comes to my mind.

It sounded like one of those professors or doctors who come out on TV and say the obvious, common-sense statements (with an audience who goes "Ahhhhh" and applaud).

Mr. Joe · #3 02-25-2006, 11:29 PM

Maybe some of these women do exist, Mike! But I believe most of them work in professions that make them off limits to those of us who work for the Federal Government!

shsong21 · #4 02-25-2006, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by mike

Shsong21, you better study this and learn!

From the Chosun Ilbo:

I like this part:

Where are these women at? They don't exist!

Oh~! very good a article ! Thank you Mike !
this article will attach in my homepage. and I will read everday that.

Tonysan · #5 03-01-2006, 09:56 PM

I don't know guys....

If you are single and hope to have toe-curling sex....It's really a matter
of being lucky if you ask me. I think some women are turned on by a guy just being nice to them repeatedly, and over time. And if that is the formula then you will just have to wait until the pie is done. Who know's how long that will be?

Some of my partners are pretty agressive...Sometimes it works for them, sometimes it doesn't. I must say though, that for the times I have seen it work (the agressive pursuit)....It was never with a woman I would want to have a relationship with...But they say they are not looking for a relationship anway (probably because they are married). Oh well.

I can only say for certain, that nice guys don't always finish last.

Tonysan

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